Tool: The Permission Slip Worksheet

The Permission Slip helps you find the unstated rules you've been holding yourself to — the ones about resting, saying no, being perfect, needing help — and put them into words. Then it helps you write yourself an actual, specific permission to relax that rule. Not a vague intention. A named permission you can point back to later.

You know the feeling: you’re exhausted, but resting makes you anxious.

Someone asks for a favor you don’t have room for, and “no” gets stuck in your throat.

You finish something solid, and your brain immediately whispers that it’s not enough.

None of this is random. It’s coming from rules you never actually agreed to — you just absorbed them somewhere along the way, and they’ve been running the show ever since.

The problem is, knowing a rule is unfair doesn’t make it go away.

A fleeting thought like “I guess I could rest” doesn’t stand a chance against years of habit the moment guilt shows up.

What actually works is naming the rule out loud, in writing, and replacing it with something just as specific and just as real.

The Permission Slip is where you do exactly that.

You’ll uncover the invisible rules you’ve been living by and write yourself direct, concrete permission to let them go — something you can point back to the next time guilt tries to talk you out of taking care of yourself.

Sign it, keep it, and start living by rules you actually chose.

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