My Path

  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The “What I Actually Did Today” Log

    Most of us walk around with a story about ourselves that doesn't quite match our actual behavior. We plan the day one way in our heads and live it another way in reality, and the gap between the two often goes completely unnoticed because we're too busy explaining it away or beating ourselves up over it. This worksheet strips both of those reactions out of the equation. At the end of each day, you simply record what you intended to do next to what you actually did — no commentary, no self-judgment, just facts.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The 2-Minute Win Planner

    Some of the most powerful changes in recovery don't come from big, dramatic action. They come from small, repeatable proof that you can follow through. This worksheet is built around one simple idea: choose one action so small it takes less than two minutes, and do it every single day, no matter what kind of day it is.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Already Done List

    There's a specific kind of morning where nothing has technically gone wrong, but you still feel like you're already failing the day. You look at the clock, you look at your to-do list, and your brain quietly declares: "I've done nothing." This worksheet exists for that exact moment.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Ask for Help Script

    This worksheet helps you write out the exact, word-for-word request you'll use to ask one specific person for one specific piece of help. Not a general idea of what you need. Not a hint you're hoping someone picks up on. An actual sentence, ready to go, that you can say or send when the moment calls for it. The goal is simple: remove the guesswork from asking for help so that when you need support, the only thing you have to do is say the words you already prepared.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Avoidance Map

    There's something you've been putting off, and you already have a reason ready for why now isn't the time. That reason has probably worked for weeks. The Avoidance Map exists to take that reason out of your head, where it feels reasonable and quiet, and put it on paper, where it can finally be examined honestly.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Body Check-In Log

    Some mornings, someone might ask how you're doing, and the honest answer is simply "I don't know." Not because you're avoiding the question, but because the words genuinely aren't there yet. The Body Check-In Log was built for exactly that moment. Before you can name a feeling, your body is already giving you information — tightness, numbness, tension held in familiar places. This worksheet gives you a way to capture that information daily, without pressure to interpret it right away.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Capacity Checker

    Every day asks something of you. The problem is, most of us decide what today "should" involve before we ever check what today can actually hold. We default to yesterday's plan, someone else's expectations, or the version of ourselves we wish showed up every morning. The Capacity Checker interrupts that pattern. It's a fast, honest, in-the-moment gut check you take right before committing to today's specific action — so the commitment gets sized to the real day you're actually having, not the day you assumed you'd have.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Catastrophe Reframe Sheet

    When you are anxious, your thinking narrows. You stop seeing a range of possibilities and start seeing only the disaster version of events. It feels real, it feels urgent, and it feels like the only logical conclusion. The Catastrophe Reframe Sheet asks you to slow that process down and look at the same situation from three angles instead of one: the worst case, the most likely case, and the best case. Placing them side by side breaks the spell of tunnel vision.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Commitment Downgrade Tool

    Most people respond to a missed goal by doubling down. They set the same commitment again, maybe with more enthusiasm, more willpower, more promises. And then they miss it again. This worksheet interrupts that cycle. Instead of asking you to push harder, it asks you to shrink the target until it matches what you've actually proven you can do.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Community Contribution Starter

    There's a quiet moment that happens for a lot of people in recovery or personal growth work. You've been supported. You've been shown up for. People have listened, checked in, helped carry the load. And somewhere along the way, a thought creeps in: "I'm the one who needs help. I don't have anything to give right now." This worksheet is built to gently push back on that thought, one small act at a time.

  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Comparison Detox Log

    This worksheet gives you a simple way to catch comparison in real time and record what it actually took from you — your time, your mood, your motivation, your focus. Instead of experiencing comparison as one more forgettable bad moment, you start collecting evidence. Over multiple entries, that evidence turns into a clear, cumulative picture of how much comparison is really costing you when it's left unchecked.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Comparison Trap worksheet

    Comparison is one of those things everyone tells you to just stop doing, as if it were a light switch. It is not. Comparison sticks around because it is trying to tell you something, and most of us never slow down long enough to hear what that is. This worksheet is not about the general habit of comparing yourself to others. It is about one specific person, the one who keeps showing up, and getting honest about why it is them and not someone else.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Completion Photo Log

    The Completion Photo Log is exactly what it sounds like. Once a day, you take one photo of one small thing you finished. A made bed. A cleared desk. A completed chore. No writing required. No long reflection. Just a picture, taken in the moment, that captures proof of forward motion. Over time, these photos stack up into a visual record of consistency that your mind cannot talk you out of.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Control Circle

    This worksheet takes one specific stressor in your life right now and breaks it into three honest categories: what you can directly control, what you can influence but not command, and what you need to release because it sits entirely outside your hands. Instead of experiencing your stressor as one overwhelming blur, you end up with a clear map of where your energy actually belongs.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Current Reality Statement

    There is a difference between knowing where you stand and being able to say it in one clear sentence. This worksheet closes that gap. It takes everything you uncovered in a deeper look at yourself, like the Honest Snapshot, and compresses it into a single, plainly worded statement you can return to again and again.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Drain Finder

    Have you ever gotten to the end of the day and felt completely exhausted... but when you try to figure out why, you can't actually point to anything?
     
    No huge crisis happened. Nothing dramatic. You just feel like you're running on empty and you can't name what's pulling the energy out of you.
     
    That's exactly what this worksheet is for. This isn't a to-do list, and it's not a productivity hack. What this is, really, is a chance to finally name the stuff that's been quietly costing you energy without you ever giving it permission. 
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Easiest Path Map

    Most people think progress requires the hardest, most impressive path forward. This worksheet challenges that idea directly. Instead of asking what would be the most ambitious move you could make, it asks a different question entirely: given exactly where you are right now, what is the path that requires the least resistance while still counting as real forward movement? That shift changes everything about how sustainable your progress becomes.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Emotional Hangover Tracker

    This worksheet helps you track your mood specifically on the day after a high-stress event, rather than only during or right after it happens. By shifting your attention to the "morning after," you can start to see a pattern that most people miss entirely — the emotional hangover. Over time, this builds a mapped record showing how consistently, and how strongly, stress lingers into the next day.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Energy Audit

    Most people plan their day around an idea of themselves rather than actual evidence. Maybe you've always called yourself a morning person, or assumed your energy tanks every afternoon, without ever really testing whether that's true. This worksheet replaces the assumption with a week of honest data, so your planning can finally be built around how your energy actually behaves.
  • 3 Lessons

    Tool: The Fear Underneath

    You've already done the hard part of noticing an avoidance — a task, a conversation, a decision you keep putting off. Chances are, you've also got a story ready to explain why. "I'm too busy." "It's not the right time." "I'll get to it soon." Those stories aren't lies exactly, but they're rarely the whole truth. This worksheet exists to help you move past the surface explanation and find the real fear that's been quietly driving the delay all along.