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Tool: The Non-Negotiable List

This worksheet helps you define your absolute floors — the standards, behaviors, and values you will not compromise on, no matter what is happening around you. This isn't a list tied to one bad week or one specific slip. It's a standing, always-on list that applies to your life broadly, across any circumstance, any mood, any season. Once written, it becomes a fixed reference point you can return to again and again, no matter what's going on.

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There’s the version of you that means well, and there’s the version of you that shows up when everything falls apart.

If you’ve ever looked back on a moment and thought “that wasn’t who I want to be,” you already know how far apart those two people can be.

The problem isn’t that you don’t have values.

It’s that under stress, exhaustion, or temptation, those values get harder and harder to reach.

By the time you need them most, your clearest thinking is already gone — and you’re left negotiating with yourself in the worst possible moment to do it.

The Non-Negotiable List changes when that decision gets made.

Instead of hoping the stressed, tired, triggered version of you can find the line in real time, you draw it now — while you’re calm, clear, and thinking straight.

Few lines.

Firm lines.

Yours.

This isn’t about adding more rules to your life.

It’s about finally knowing, without hesitation, exactly where you stand — so the next hard moment doesn’t have to become another regret.