Tool: The Relationship Energy Audit

This worksheet walks you through the people you spend regular time with and asks you to sort them based on one honest measure: how you actually feel after being around them. Not how the relationship is supposed to make you feel. Not how close you're supposed to be based on history, title, or obligation. Just the real, observed effect. Do you leave that interaction feeling more like yourself, or less like yourself? The result is a two-sided list — energizing relationships on one side, depleting ones on the other — that turns a vague, uneasy feeling into something concrete you can actually work with.

You’re exhausted and you don’t fully know why.

You dread certain calls, certain visits, certain names on your phone, but you push the feeling down because that person is family, or an old friend, or someone you’re “supposed” to love without question.

So the tiredness stays unnamed, and it quietly eats into the progress you’re working so hard to build.

What if you stopped guessing and finally looked at the evidence?

The Relationship Energy Audit gives you a simple, honest way to sort the people in your life by their real effect on you — not their title, not their history, not how things are supposed to feel, but how you actually feel afterward.

This isn’t about blame, and it isn’t about cutting people off.

It’s about seeing clearly, so you can protect the one resource recovery and rebuilding demand most: your energy. Once you know where it’s going, you can finally start deciding where it goes next.

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Course Includes

  • 3 Lessons